Monday, March 17th- also known as St. Patrick's Day was my first day back in the real world! It was also the day that Rob's folks went back to Ontario. So our morning was a busy one. The in laws left with Rob before 8 am. Alina and I were left to eat our breakfast together and to get ready for our big 'first' days side by side! I went onto facebook to find a bunch of messages from friends and family wishing me a good day. I saw a message from my mom and I decided that I could brave phoning her. I knew that if I talked to her I might burst into tears at any moment. But the conversation was good and brief. It was true, I had a hard time talking without getting teary. As the clock ticked closer to 'that time', the more upset I was feeling. I was trying to tell Alina in a cheerful voice that she was going to daycare and that she was going to have so much fun. But I'm sure I didn't sound too convincing. The drop off ended up being just fine. Alina was happy to go in and play with the toys and I made my goodbyes quick.
Before work, during and after- with my green beer that I feel like I earned!! |
Rob and Alina walked to the pharmacy and strolled in five minutes before five. I was so excited to see her smiling face. She was pretty happy to see me and that made my heart all warm and fuzzy. Rob snapped a few pictures of her in the store, watching me work.
Then we all walked home together. I held her in my arms the entire time and Rob pushed the empty stroller. It felt so good to see her and she was content playing with the buttons on my coat for our sunny, evening stroll home. Once we got home, Rob fed her supper, while we drank our green beers. We ended up facetiming with Rob's parents who were stuck at the Winnipeg airport. (They didn't end up getting home until 4 am. Thanks a lot Air Canada.) We had a really great first day and I hope that the rest of the week is as good!
Thanks for all of the support from everyone. I promise I won't go on and on about being back at work anymore. It was just such a big deal in my life and now that I've gone through the first couple of days, I feel confident that we can all do this. (When I got home from work Tuesday, Alina was bathed, in her pj's and Rob was heating up her dinner. I was so impressed! If this is how it's going to be, then I have nothing to worry about!)
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So here's to one full year with the coolest, happiest little baby human I've ever met! It goes by so fast, yet I can hardly remember when she was that small!!
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Aww, so glad you have made it through the first couple days without too much difficulty!! It can be really heartbreaking at first, but I know for me it really caused me to spend a lot more quality time with Molly when I had it. Some days will no doubt be better than others, but she is so lucky to have such a wonderful mommy who cares about her and loves her so much! Sounds like your arrival home on Tuesday was great too - can't complain about that!! ;)
Keep us posted on how things are going!! :)
I LOVE this post. I'm so proud of you for going back to work and making it "work!" Yay you! I don't have kids, but I assume it will get easier and easier. You were lucky to have the last year with just you and her. It's something neither of you will ever forget!!!
Stephanie- Thank you. I would email my response, but I see that you are a "no-reply blogger" so I can't find your email. Thank you for this comment- it made me smile. You're right, regardless if you have kids or not- it will get easier and easier. Tuesday was a tougher day for the little one, but I hear that is completely normal. After a couple of weeks she'll be right into a routine, no problem. And me too!
Omg, those last two pictures are the cutest ever!
I'm so happy your first day went well! Aw, it must have been so hard for you to hear that Alina cried for a while when you were gone but it must have made your heart SO happy that she was excited to see her daddy!
You definitely deserved that green beer :)
I hope the rest of your week is going well!
I'm so glad that it went smoothly! And the more confident that Alina gets with you being gone the less she'll be upset so you won't always have to worry about that :)
And I'm super impressed that you got back into the swing of things so easily! x
Awww yay Haley! i'm so glad that Alina had a good first day at daycare and you had a good first day back. How sweet of Rob to bring her to your work. That's a good man, knowing what you needed/wanted and making it happen. What a special little family you have <3
Those last two St. Patrick's Day photos of Alina are so sweet, crazy how much things can change in a year. Glad you first week back is going smooth! Definitely think that green beer was deserved. Two more days and its the weekend!
Ah Haley, what a big step! Welcome back to the real world :) Can't wait to hear about all the new things Alina discovers at daycare!
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Oh wow! Congratulations for your first week back and too sweet that Rob came to visit with Alina!! Nice to see you in the 'scrubs??' I'm not sure what you'd call them haha but you look awesome!!
St Patty's day your side looked great! I completely failed in my St Patty's day.. A) I forgot that it was St Pattys... B) I didn't wear green.. C) I didn't even drink beer!!!
FAIL.
Better luck next year :)
It is also incredible to see how Alina has transformed from last year!! I love that you make her wear green.
Welcome back to the workforce lovely lady!! Keep smiling and embrace the new chapter xxxx
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PS that hat on Alina is simply GORGEOUS!
Aww, that's a big change to go back to work! It's good to know that all of you are handling it as well as can be expected. Time always seems to fly, doesn't it?
I am so happy to hear that the day went smoothly! I know that wasn't an easy thing to do and I think that there are a lot of future moms, or moms about to return to work that will get a lot out of hearing about your experiences of going back to work and balancing a family, work, and a blog. It was sooo sweet when Alina called out to Rob like that, and again so sweet when they met you at work and you guys walked home together.
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